About

CouplesTherapy.co

Welcome to CouplesTherapy.co — the sweet spot for Couples Therapy, online.
A place where we fight less, play more, and where Love is Fun!

Yes, we’re saying the F-word: FUN!
We’re a VIBE.

Because no matter what life throws at you, it’s how you approach it that writes your story.
Why not make it a good one?

What We’re Up To

We draw from an ocean of relationship wisdom — including theories like attachment styles.
They’ve informed us.
They’ve been helpful.

And… we’re moving on.

Not because they were “wrong,” but because they’ve played out — often leaving people confused, over-analyzed, mislabeled, and trying to fit themselves and each other into metaphorical shoes that never quite fit.

At CouplesTherapy.co, we believe good relationships are a bi-directional skill — and we’re focused on becoming more RELATIONAL.
It’s that simple.
That sweet.

And the good news?
Figuring out how to do that is exactly what we’re here to help you with.

We prioritize:
Curiosity over criticism.
Creativity over rigidity.
Collaboration over conflict.
Fun over fear.

Life looks different now.
We’re busier than ever.
We’re holding a lot — including our iPhones.
We’re wrestling technology while trying to hold onto our humanity.
It’s been… extra.
And honestly? We’re tired.

So let’s pause.
Feel our feet.
Take a breath.

Here’s a question:

Whose life is this anyway?

Ours.
And this isn’t a dress rehearsal.

Somewhere along the way, joy and play got sidelined.
We’re here to take them back.

It’s Okay to Play!

One of our core mantras here is simple — and deeply lived:

It’s okay to play. And we must!

That wisdom was taught, modeled, and lovingly insisted upon by Jessica’s beloved dog Tegra, who partnered with her for nearly 15 years in the creation of this work. Tegra helped shape the spirit of CouplesTherapy.co — reminding us, again and again, that play is not frivolous, it’s essential.

While her body is no longer here, her spirit remains very much alive — woven into the pixelated fabric of this digital endeavor, guiding the tone, the heart, and the joy behind everything you see here.

We help people stop pathologizing themselves and each other
and start learning about themselves, each other, and what actually works — for them.

The most important question is simple:
What works for you — and whoever you’re doing life with?

And if you’re not sure yet, we’ll help you think that through — skillfully.

Because relationships aren’t static.
They’re ongoing conversations.
And we’re always becoming.

Who You Are

You belong here.

Partnered or single.
Married, separated, or divorced.
With kids or without.
Single and searching — or single and finding yourself.

This work is about all relationships:
romantic, family, work, friendship — and the one you have with yourself (that one really counts).

Whatever shape a relationship takes, so long as it’s safe for the kids — including the inner child within us.

How We Work

This is an ongoing conversation, not a fixed answer.
No right way. No wrong way. Just your way — and we’ll help you discern whether it actually works, and how to adjust when it doesn’t.

That’s a skill we all need.

We bring support, skills, and resources —
plus color, humor, and a bit of sass.
Digital relationship playgrounds.
Seasonal and celebratory experiences.

We move insight into embodied experience —
using technology to make relationship learning more alive, accessible, and fun.

If you’re looking for a fresh perspective in the couples therapy space,
come play! We’d love to have you.

Fight Less, Play More.

Love is Fun! 🍒

— Jessica Hansen, LMFT
Founder, CouplesTherapy.co